This is a terrible idea if you're romancing him! If you decide to forgive Loghain upon confronting him at the Landsmeet, Alistair will leave your party forever. Upon pursuing a romantic relationship with him, he is shy, passionate, and when he has decided he wants to be with you, unshakable in his commitment.Īlistair is a special character because so many of your actions can change how he sees you. This former Templar and Grey Warden sticks by you throughout your journey after the battle with the Darkspawn wipes out the rest of the Wardens. I still remember falling in love with Alistair at the tender age of 16.